I was totally going to send you some pictures but I forgot to bring my
camera cord, so maybe next week. The services were both very good and both of
them got their temple recommends at church on Sunday so hopefully they can go
do baptism's soon. John is even going to stay until next Sunday so his friend
Ricky, our Elder's Quorum President, can ordain him. So that will be really
cool.
Other than that we really didn't do too much, mostly just finished teaching them
the lessons that they needed and going to interviews and stuff. And most of our
other appointments cancelled. We had zone training too, which was good.
One
super funny thing that did happen this week was that it was Sister Bowen's
birthday! Kind of. On Wednesday we had dinner with John and Ricky at Olive
Garden. It was the girl at the table next to ours birthday and so of course
they announced it and sang to her. Well, then John and Ricky got the idea to
tell our waiter that it was Sister Bowen's birthday too. She kept telling him
that it wasn't so they didn't do anything but they mentioned it every time he
came over and they even threatened to announce it themselves if Sister Bowen
wouldn't let them sing to her. She took away all of their knives because they
were threatening to clink them on the cups to announce it.
That
evening we had a lesson with John and Ricky and Tony and we told him about what
had happened. So he suggested that we announce it over the intercom in the
barracks and ask everyone to sing ha ha but that didn't happen either. John
also tried to get us to take all of the ice cream in his apartment as a
birthday present.
Well, then on Friday after our meeting our zone was having lunch, and the Redd
and Restler Elders came out of the kitchen with a cake and started singing
happy birthday to Sister Bowen. They had also, completely unrelated what had
happened on Wednesday, without even knowing about it, decided to pretend it was
her birthday too! So then of course after that, every day since has been her
birthday. It's been pretty funny.
This
week we also had dinner at the senior couple in our ward's apartment and we
managed to find our that he used to be a mission president (we had suspicions
but they never said anything directly). So they told us lots of cool stories
about that and a lot of random cat stories too. So if you ever want to know any
funny cat stories let me know.
Something that I have been thinking about this week is obviously baptism but in
relation to that Moroni 8: 25-26 and Moroni 7:43-47. They talk about how we
have to be meek and lowly in heart in order to have the Holy Ghost. And how the
Holy Ghost will give us faith and hope and that hope will give us charity,
which is the pure love of Christ. But also how we can only retain that through
prayer and diligence (Moroni 6:3). Anyway, I know that we always talk about
enduring to the end but I just love how much of a logical process this is. We
have faith and we want to repent, we repent and we want to get baptized, we get
baptized and we get the Holy Ghost, in order to keep the Holy Ghost we have to
be meek and lowly of heart and have determination, those characteristics lead
to Charity, which is what makes us Christlike and worth or and wanting to have
the Holy Ghost. I don't know, maybe that doesn't make sense but it makes sense
to me and it's my spiritual thought so that's really all that matters!
Well, I hope you all have a fantastic week! Talk to you soon!
Love,
April
Tuesday, August 11, 2015
Thursday, August 6, 2015
Mexican Coke?
So, let me start with
the coolest news first, both John and Diana are planning on getting baptized
this Saturday! So this week will involve a lot of prep work to get all of that
done. John is also moving on Tuesday to Las Vegas so then I promise you all won't
have to keep hearing about him. The crazy thing though is that Sister
Bowen is also from Vegas and he is going to be moving into her old YSA
ward.
This week we also
visited John at the hospital and it was pretty much the funniest thing I've
seen in a long time. He had some kind of nose surgery and when we arrived he
was still pretty heavily sedated. The nurse told us and his other two friends
who were there from the base that we had to try to get him to stay awake so
that he could go home. It didn't work out too well... He would wake up, we
would have a crazy conversation, and then he would fall back asleep. He kept
asking us about where the grey table was that he put his important stuff in and
whenever we told him that there wasn't any table he would get super mad at us.
He also had us pray with him and asked me to tell him a story but he fell
asleep in the middle of both. He told us about the friend that he took to the
airport that morning, who was on his way to Afghanistan and every once in a while
after someone would say something he would say "You have to say in the
name of Jesus Christ amen!" Ha, the nurse also had us spoon feed him Jello
and he kept falling asleep and then waking up and being super confused. When we
taught John his second to last lesson yesterday we also had to show him what a
baptism looks like by watching one on The District because there hasn't been
one that he could go to so who knew, those videos are actually useful
sometimes.
This week we also had a
lot of authentic Mexican food this week and even the authentic Mexican Coke.
You know what's kind of a bummer though? I'm not really that crazy about it. As
Sister Bowen said, "I'd rather have New Mexican food than Mexican food and
Taco Bell than Taco Cabana." But... what can you do? I'm starting to be
really grateful for seafood and fish though.
We went to a suicide
awareness/ prevention class this week. Now before you start freaking out, it
was something one of our members was doing for a ward activity. It was a
condensed version of the one that he teaches for the military. Man, that would
be a rough job, to just teach suicide prevention all day every day. The class
was good though and our member who taught it looks exactly like Matt Meese from
Divine Comedy/ Studio C, so that was a little weird though.
Other than that though
it's just been a bit of the same old same old. We had to teach chastity twice
this week... I'm convinced if you can successfully make it though a chastity
lesson with a YSA investigator you can successfully manage any other conversation
in life. Especially if after you talk about it one of the investigators says
"Yeah... I don't believe in families. I think they're just kind of a waste
of time." um... oh...
Elder Guymon, or
"Jacob" as he's now known, who I and half of the zone here served
with in Albuquerque (seriously, everyone here has been to the west side) was
wandering the mission this week so we all had to avoid him (we're not supposed
to get together with old missionaries) and secretly look for him. Ha, ha poor
Sister Bowen. Everyone we talked to was telling us "did you hear Elder
Guymon is in town?!" and she was finally like "Who is this guy! Why
is he so great!" And... I won a game of Monopoly last p-day, so you know,
nothing new.
Here since we usually go
out to eat it can be hard to share a spiritual thought or a dinner message, so
usually what we'll do is read a scripture or two and then talk about it. We
like to play a game though where we share something and then we have the member
share with us. When we played earlier this week a recently reactivated member
told us about when he was a kid and his dad would open up to a random page and
have him guess who was speaking. He talked about how he got to know the
different prophets personalities and speaking styles. I thought that was a
super cool idea. I mean, even though Mormon is abridging most of the book in
The Book of Mormon, each prophet still has different "specialties" or
things that they emphasis and there are lots of excerpts that are quotes from
them. And the Bible is written by loads of different authors. I know that
a lot of times we read through the scriptures and don't really take into
account that these are real people! And not only are they real, but they are
different people. When we look at Nephi and compare him to Alma and compare
them to Daniel, we see completely different personalities, even though all of
them were prophets. Anyway, I thought that it was an awesome idea and a cool
and new way to study the scriptures more. So, try out the test, have someone
open to a random page and see how you do. I know that I want to practice
more.
Well, I hope you all are
doing great and have an amazing week!
Love,
April
Sunday, August 2, 2015
we have a problem with Slurpees.
This week Sister Bowen and I learned that we have a problem with
Slurpees. In the three weeks that we have been together, we have gotten them
three times. Always we blame the heat and often we use the excuse that we can
talk to the people inside (which we do, don't worry!) but, we have recently
made a decree that it is getting out of hand and have banned slurpees for at
least the foreseeable future. As you might have guessed, this is what I have
been reduced to talking about because it seems like not a lot has happened this
week.
This week we had a lesson with our investigator Karen who is obsessed with the second coming. She is afraid of / excited for all of the fire and brimstone and all of that. She also love The Book of Mormon but, thinks that if she just believes it in her heart that is good enough and she doesn't need to go to church, get baptized, make and keep covenants etc. So, it's a work in process. It's crazy how many people don't' seem to believe that we have to actually do things here in this life. That if we really did believe it in our hearts that our actions would follow. I guess I never really realized before I started understanding more of what other Christians believe how unique the idea is that Heavenly Father put us here for a purpose, to learn and become better. Not to suffer and grovel for his forgiveness so maybe we can make it back to heaven. Not that forgiveness isn't a part of it, but it's an entirely different mindset, which makes a big difference.
This week we also had exchanges, Our STL's are Spanish speaking again but luckily I got to stay in our "English" area. We had a lesson with one girl who can understand English but can't speak it. So she couldn't talk to me and I couldn't really talk to her because I didn't know what she was saying. So.. she and Hermana Espinoza had a lesson... We also had a lesson with Diana. I don't remember if I've talked about her before but she and her sister are dating members, one of whom is in Brazil on a mission. She has a date for the 8th and so far things are going well. We were able to teach the word of wisdom which in my opinion is the trickies lesson because so many people have trouble with it and she really doesn't have many concerns, and she said that she is excited to get baptized, so that is good. Hopefully her sister will come more too. I have a slight concern that she's doing it more for the boyfriend than for God but hopefully I'm wrong.
Oh, I also had shawarma this week. It tasted exactly like a gyro. I honestly don't even know what the difference is. So it was good but I was a little disappointed that it wasn't more, I don't know, different. There are a lot of interesting places to eat around here and I think I told you that we go out to eat a lot so hopefully I'll get the chance to try some more interesting food. I also went to Texas Roadhouse for the first time. I told Sister Bowen that I was just waiting to go because I knew subconsciously that someday I would be in Texas and that's where you have to have it.
John continues to be super cool. We had a lesson with him on Thrusday and were planning to put him on date for the 14th of August. He told us though that he got his discharge papers that morning and would be going back to Las Vegas on the 3rd, after his surgery the next Thursday. We were kind of bummed but he said that he wanted to continue to meet with missionaries when he got home so that was good news at least. About an hour later though on his way home he sent us a text and asked if it were possible for him to get baptized on the 1st before he left. And that his friend Adam who referred him to the church wanted to fly in for the service. Ha, ha so we said yes of course but then started freaking out when we realized how soon that was and how much more we had to teach. So we may or may not have texted him the Word of Wisdom (because in order to get baptized you have to be living it for a certain period of time) but don't worry, we actually taught it on Sunday and because He's awesome he was fine with it all. He found out yesterday though that he actually doesn't have to leave until the 12th so naturally his new date is the 11th. Probably the best FHE activity every right?!
We did a few hours of service this week helping a recent covert and her daughter Raven helping them get ready to move They are moving into seriously the middle of nowhere. It takes almost 2 hours for us to get to their new property.
We also had interviews with President Miller this week. When we told him that we had 16 investigators he asked what our secrets were. Ha, an area the size of Canada? Too bad too a good number of them aren't progressing. He also told me to read the mission library so I've started that. I only have two of the books but they're the long ones and I'm sure it won't be hard to find the other two.
This week I gave a talk in sacrament about finding happiness in the gospel so that's what I've been thinking about recently. There's a cool scripture in psalms 126:3 that basically says "The Lord has done good things for us, and we are glad". I talked about how we need to remember the happiness that we've felt before, focus on gratitude, recommit to consecration, and become brand loyal to the gospel (that's how you work consecration and missionary work into a talk secretly). It really has had me thinking though, Heavenly Father wants us to be happy, that's his goal for us. All we have to do is look for it and act on what we need to bring it to us.
Anyway, I hope you all are doing well and have lots of fun summer plans. Happy soon to be August!
Love,
April
oh also, attached is a picture of our church building. It's not a great picture, I just took it real quick to show you what it looks like so I'll have to take a better one later. I guess it's actually the first LDS building in Texas. It kind of reminds me of a cathedral.
This week we had a lesson with our investigator Karen who is obsessed with the second coming. She is afraid of / excited for all of the fire and brimstone and all of that. She also love The Book of Mormon but, thinks that if she just believes it in her heart that is good enough and she doesn't need to go to church, get baptized, make and keep covenants etc. So, it's a work in process. It's crazy how many people don't' seem to believe that we have to actually do things here in this life. That if we really did believe it in our hearts that our actions would follow. I guess I never really realized before I started understanding more of what other Christians believe how unique the idea is that Heavenly Father put us here for a purpose, to learn and become better. Not to suffer and grovel for his forgiveness so maybe we can make it back to heaven. Not that forgiveness isn't a part of it, but it's an entirely different mindset, which makes a big difference.
This week we also had exchanges, Our STL's are Spanish speaking again but luckily I got to stay in our "English" area. We had a lesson with one girl who can understand English but can't speak it. So she couldn't talk to me and I couldn't really talk to her because I didn't know what she was saying. So.. she and Hermana Espinoza had a lesson... We also had a lesson with Diana. I don't remember if I've talked about her before but she and her sister are dating members, one of whom is in Brazil on a mission. She has a date for the 8th and so far things are going well. We were able to teach the word of wisdom which in my opinion is the trickies lesson because so many people have trouble with it and she really doesn't have many concerns, and she said that she is excited to get baptized, so that is good. Hopefully her sister will come more too. I have a slight concern that she's doing it more for the boyfriend than for God but hopefully I'm wrong.
Oh, I also had shawarma this week. It tasted exactly like a gyro. I honestly don't even know what the difference is. So it was good but I was a little disappointed that it wasn't more, I don't know, different. There are a lot of interesting places to eat around here and I think I told you that we go out to eat a lot so hopefully I'll get the chance to try some more interesting food. I also went to Texas Roadhouse for the first time. I told Sister Bowen that I was just waiting to go because I knew subconsciously that someday I would be in Texas and that's where you have to have it.
John continues to be super cool. We had a lesson with him on Thrusday and were planning to put him on date for the 14th of August. He told us though that he got his discharge papers that morning and would be going back to Las Vegas on the 3rd, after his surgery the next Thursday. We were kind of bummed but he said that he wanted to continue to meet with missionaries when he got home so that was good news at least. About an hour later though on his way home he sent us a text and asked if it were possible for him to get baptized on the 1st before he left. And that his friend Adam who referred him to the church wanted to fly in for the service. Ha, ha so we said yes of course but then started freaking out when we realized how soon that was and how much more we had to teach. So we may or may not have texted him the Word of Wisdom (because in order to get baptized you have to be living it for a certain period of time) but don't worry, we actually taught it on Sunday and because He's awesome he was fine with it all. He found out yesterday though that he actually doesn't have to leave until the 12th so naturally his new date is the 11th. Probably the best FHE activity every right?!
We did a few hours of service this week helping a recent covert and her daughter Raven helping them get ready to move They are moving into seriously the middle of nowhere. It takes almost 2 hours for us to get to their new property.
We also had interviews with President Miller this week. When we told him that we had 16 investigators he asked what our secrets were. Ha, an area the size of Canada? Too bad too a good number of them aren't progressing. He also told me to read the mission library so I've started that. I only have two of the books but they're the long ones and I'm sure it won't be hard to find the other two.
This week I gave a talk in sacrament about finding happiness in the gospel so that's what I've been thinking about recently. There's a cool scripture in psalms 126:3 that basically says "The Lord has done good things for us, and we are glad". I talked about how we need to remember the happiness that we've felt before, focus on gratitude, recommit to consecration, and become brand loyal to the gospel (that's how you work consecration and missionary work into a talk secretly). It really has had me thinking though, Heavenly Father wants us to be happy, that's his goal for us. All we have to do is look for it and act on what we need to bring it to us.
Anyway, I hope you all are doing well and have lots of fun summer plans. Happy soon to be August!
Love,
April
oh also, attached is a picture of our church building. It's not a great picture, I just took it real quick to show you what it looks like so I'll have to take a better one later. I guess it's actually the first LDS building in Texas. It kind of reminds me of a cathedral.
Tuesday, July 21, 2015
let me tell you about John, the coolest investigator since sliced bread.
So sorry if the e-mail
ends up being a bit short, I had to write kind of a long one to our hero
President Miller so I'm a little short on time.
First let me tell you
about John, the coolest investigator since sliced bread. I think I told you a
little about him last week, we met on base and his friend from Utah referred
him to us. He went to Church last week and we talked about the Gathering of
Israel. Well, we were supposed to meet with him on Tuesday but he and his
friend ended up getting into a car accident. Everyone was fine but, it kind of
messed up the plans for the day. We rescheduled though to meet with him on
Friday and it was great! He told us that he has really bad anxiety sometimes
because of being overseas and so he was really worried when he got into the
accident because he didn't have any medicine with him or anything. He also said
that he friend (who was driving) got really mad and started getting mad a God
for what happened. "How could you do this to me?!?" etc. John said
"I was thinking about how we were talking about missionary work in church
and to share with people, so I told my friend that she should read The Book of
Mormon. I admitted that I hadn't read it yet but that I had heard a lot of
really good things about it and had a good feeling about it." And then he
said that after he shared that everyone started to calm down and he was fine
even though he didn't have anything for his anxiety with him. What the! Who is
this guy? That's actually the second time though I've had an investigator
say "I just had this feeling that I should share this spiritual thing
so then I did." Man, I wish I was cool enough to not only
recognize but to act on promptings like that! And then he went to the YSA dance
that night, the church clean up the next morning and the activity after
and took off work to go to church the next day. So, here's
the problem, he's moving in a month! Ah, the curse of the YSA
ward. So, we'll just have to work fast right?!
This week we also had
dinner with a recently reactivated member. He told us that when he left the
church as an early teenager President Hinkley was still the alive. And
then when he started coming back to church President Monson was the
prophet. He was telling us how he kept wonder "Whatever happened to the
Hinkley guy?" until finally someone told him. I don't know, it was funny
when he told it, ha ha. The other crazy thing though is that we were
talking about where we were from and Sister Bowen told him that she was from
Nevada. He said "Oh, I know someone from Nevada, we used to work
together. His name is Aaron Thomas." Ha, and I was like "His name is
what?!" But, turns out that it's a different guy. So Aaron Thomas I know
has a doppleganger running around Nevada somewhere.
We had a bit of a set
back with a few of our other investigators. One of them didn't understand the
Word of Wisdom and then was mad that we had to move his baptism date and
another one "Wants to be baptized, but isn't sure if he wants to be
Mormon" but hey, set backs are just another day in the life right? Oh the
up side, we had a good pass off lesson with a girl named Anna. She has a
coworker who is a member of the church and when she asked him how he keeps his
skin so soft he told her because he follows the word of wisdom. When she asked
him what that was he said to ask the missionaries and here we are, teaching
about the word of wisdom, and other things... Ha, strangest referral ever but
hey, it works.
Oh, I have also learned
the Souper Salads is a very disappointing place to eat. It is pretty much the
salad and soup version of Pizza Pie Café. I strongly suggest avoiding it, if
you get the chance. Also, Chubby's is a fantastic place to eat if you get the
chance. As far as I know, it only currently exists in El Paso but, if you see
it you should go.
As far as a thought for
the week, something that is good and bad about a YSA ward is that it has a good
number of recently returned missionaries in it. That's good because it means
that people are missionary minded and are willing when they can to come out
with us. It also means though that we hear a lot of "Well.. when I was on
my mission, we did it this other way!" So I have been thinking recently
about stewardship, revelation and the order in which Heavenly Father does
things.
We had one member pull
us aside after church and tell us that we were doing our job wrong (according
to her) and that if people in the ward (including her) decided to be less
active it would probably be our fault. Interestingly enough, that's
actually the second time on my mission I've had someone say something like that
to me, although for different reasons. So, maybe that means that I'm really an
apostate missionary driving people away from the church, I guess that could be
true, but probably what it means, is that we need to stop and think about
stewardship, and who has not only the right, but also the duty to say
something like that. First of all, not a random ward member, but someone who
has keys to missionary work and the stewardship over this area. So, my
companion, the ward mission leader, the bishop, the stake president, the
district leader, the zone leader, or the mission president.
But, I think the same
thought can be extended to how we view all church callings. As part of
sustaining leaders that means that we also sustain and respect their
stewardship. And as part of magnifying our calling, it means that we will do
all that we can to help and recognize those that fall into our stewardship as
well. Of course that doesn't mean that other people can't have good ideas or
help, or anything like that, but it does mean that they are not entitle to
revelation on how things should be done. Which means that, in the end, the decision
has to come down to the person who (as long as they are living right and doing
all they can) has the right and obligation to receive revelation, make
corrections, and make decisions for that area.
Anyway, a long and
rambling thought but hopefully it makes sense!!
Love you all
and talk to you soon!
April
Wednesday, July 15, 2015
When you're going from 93 to 103, it's really not that big of a difference.
Hello from Mexico!! Oh, I mean, El Paso, Texas! It's kind of like the same thing though, you can literally see Mexico from here and everything is in English and Spanish. Speaking of which, I am trying to learn a little bit of Spanish stat to help me out around here. Any advice bilingual friends?
So this week has been a bit crazy. Last Tuesday I went to three transfer meetings. The first one was at 7 in the morning, when I found out that I was going south. After that we all got in a van and drove 4 hours down to Las Cruces where I went to another transfer meeting and found out I was going south again. So five our us got into a truck and drove another hour to El Paso where I went to another transfer meeting and found my new companion. I also found out that I'm back up training this transfer, which means I either did a good job last time or a bad job, ha I'm not sure which. Sister Bowen is great though, especially for only being 6 weeks out! So I think things will go well.
We cover the UTEP University ward, which as you probably guessed is YSA. Our ward boundaries are huge! We have 2,000 miles a month! We cover three zones and two stakes. It's actually pretty similar to the boundaries of the Armar YSA ward but its crazy that two people cover that alone, one of which has only been out for 6 weeks and the other one who just got here a week ago! Our ward also covers the army base here Ft. Bliss, and so our ward is probably 40% military, 40% university students and 20% just other YSA's. It's an interesting mix but I like it. It's actually really fun to be able to work with and teach people your own age and when YSA's say that they'll do something they usually actually do it! Oh, I also use the word ward generously. We technically are but we probably have about 75 active members. And, it's even more transient than a regular YSA ward because of the school and the base but, I think that things will be good. They're also not afraid to invite or talk to their friends about the gospel. We've already had like 10 referrals since I've been here, which is more probably than we had all of last transfer! But, every ward has it's strengths and weaknesses. We don't get fed a whole lot and usually when we do it's pizza or Chipotle or something. And it's hard to get member presents because they are always studying or out doing something. But, I have a good feeling about this place.
Also, don't listen to the crazy people that tell you it's so hot that it will melt your face down in El Paso. It's only about 10 degrees hotter and honestly, when you're going from 93 to 103, it's really not that big of a difference.
This week we picked up two new investigators, one of whom is doing great! He was actually given to us by a friend of his in Utah, who somehow found our number and called us. After getting lost at FT. Bliss (it's fine, it's just a military base, no one looks at you weird when you're wandering around...) we had a fantastic first lesson with him. When we told him about the apostasy he said "Oh! So that's where all of the other Christian churches came from!" Yep! Didn't even have to explain that. And he even came to church on Sunday! Ha, I felt kind of bad though because our Gospel Principles lesson was on the Gathering of Israel, which can not only be kind of confusing but also is all about missionary work, and then the third hour lesson was on temples. When we asked him how he liked it after he told us "I was super confused. I thought I was in a temple this whole time but I guess not." So, bummer, but now we have more things to talk about right?
I also really like whenever we get the chance to teach military because they totally get authority and how if you don't have that authority, it doesn't matter what you do, it's pointless.
We also had some great contacting experiences this week. Who knew that such a thing was possible right? We went to try and contact a referral who wasn't home but we decided to talk to his neighbors instead. It took us two hours to finish the street because of how many people wanted to talk to us and we were able to pass off 5 referrals. So that was pretty cool.
As far as a spiritual thought goes, I read something in Deuteronomy today that I have been thinking about. It's chapter 8 verses 3, 17 and 18. Which is similar to Mosiah Chapter 2 verses 21-26. It talks about how we are nothing compared to God, how He is the one that gives us everything, even our bodies and our breath. And yet the only thing that He asks of us is that we keep His commandments, which He has only given us in the first place so that we will have guidance, find happiness, and be able to become more like Him. How incredibly selfless is that! There is a quote by Elder Maxwell that says "Consecration is the only surrender that is also a victory." It comes from the talk Settle This in Your Hearts", (which I will admit that I haven't read, I saw the quote at the beginning of "The John Tanner Story" but it looks good so you should all ready it). All Heavenly Father wants for us is what's best for us. We don't always believe it but it is always true, and He promises that if we ask Him, He will confirm that to us. My goal is to always believe what He wants is what I want too, and then to act on it.
Well, I hope you all are doing great! Talk to you soon!
Love, April
PS the picture is a random tree we saw. Yep, this is Texas.
Monday, July 6, 2015
Today is my last day in Rio Rancho.
Today is my last day in
Rio Rancho. At least for the next 6+ weeks. Tomorrow is transfers and I'm
getting myself shipped off to somewhere new! Ha, every time we go somewhere
since we found of Saturday Sister Markus says "Last
time....." like, "Last time talking to people on 2nd street..."
So, we've had a lot of "Last times" in the past few days. I did keep
telling people that I knew Heavenly Father was just waiting for July to send me
down to El Paso but I'm hoping that that's not true! I'm kind of crossing my
fingers for Santa Fe because it sounds cool but of course where ever will be
great.
This week we did a lot
of service. Rio Rancho has a weird weed ordinance where if a city officer
notices that you have weeds in your yard you get a warning and if they aren't
cleaned up by a certain amount of time (I think 2 weeks) you get fined for it.
So lots of people need help weeding, especially older people. This week we did
a few hours of weeding and then we helped a member in our ward lay the ground
for a gazebo they are building, that was kind of fun. We were hoping too to be
able to help another member to lay some tile but it didn't happen. We were able
to have a really good experience with our weed pulling service though. Our
Spanish Sister tracting into one of our do not contact members who accepted the
offer for the 4 of us to come weed. I knew her since she had become a do not
contact soon after I got here and we were able to help her and set up another
time to see her again! So service does soften hearts, who knew (ha, probably
everyone)!
This week was also as
I'm sure you all know Independence Day. It was a pretty regular day for us
except that we went to our ward's BBQ in the afternoon and watched a few
fireworks with some of our members in the evening. Most of the exciting stuff
happened after we went home though since it really doesn't start getting dark
until around 8:30 and we had to be home by 9. We were a little
worried though that our neighbors were going to burn our apartment down since
they were lanunching stuff towards the roof. Thankfully though, it didn't burn
down and we are all still alive. Oh, we also went to 3 BBQ's this weekend and
were invited to another one so we probably won't be eating hamburgers and
hotdogs for a while. That reminds me, did I tell you that last week I had pizza
5 times? It's weird, it's like every once and a while everyone just decides that
they need to make the same thing. Something in the water I guess...
Our ward mission leader
also got released this week, which I would be more bummed about if I was
staying around, He was awesome and it's always sad to see a go leader go, but
we met with the new one yesterday and he seems like a really good guy that is
going to do really well. The only challenge for him though is that he only
moved into the ward about a month ago. So Sister Markus will get to teach a new
comp and a new WML all about the ward, ha she will do great though.
Well, that's about all
we did this week, a few lessons, including my first drop lesson where we
dropped the investigator (usually they just ignore us until we give up) which
was so much like a DTR you would have thought we were back at BYU, but that's
about it. Speaking of BYU, we had our apartment inspectors come by this
morning. We forgot about it until last night and them we were to buys to clean
so we had to do it in the morning. It wasn't bad but especially with getting
all my stuff packed up it reminded me of the end of the semester at school
where you're trying to pack, do finals, finalize your storage and all of that
and your landlord comes by to inspect your apartment, which you promptly
forget about until the morning of. Not to worry though, it went fine.
Well, I hope you all
have a fantastic summer and continue to do awesome thing! For my thought I'm
going to steal the quote and question that President Miller sent us
today. “If
we teach in the manner the Lord has prescribed, he can send his Spirit to edify
and enlighten those whom we teach. If we do not teach His way-if we teach
according to our own knowledge and according to our own intellect, and if we
slavishly tie ourselves to our own preparation or to someone else’s wisdom or
text-our teaching ‘is not of God.’….
If
we rely on debate techniques or sales methods or group psychology, we are
preaching the gospel in some other way, and it is not of God…
Intellectual things-reason and logic-can prepare the way, and they can help us in our preparation. But if we are tied to them instead of to the Spirit of the Lord, we are not teaching the gospel in the Lord’s way.
The Lord stressed that truth when he said: ‘Put your trust in that Spirit which leadeth to do good-yea, to do justly, to walk humbly, to judge righteously; and this is my Spirit’ (D&C 11:12)
This is the way we must teach the gospel”
My question for you, “Why is it so difficult for most of us to believe the Lord will speak through us?”
Intellectual things-reason and logic-can prepare the way, and they can help us in our preparation. But if we are tied to them instead of to the Spirit of the Lord, we are not teaching the gospel in the Lord’s way.
The Lord stressed that truth when he said: ‘Put your trust in that Spirit which leadeth to do good-yea, to do justly, to walk humbly, to judge righteously; and this is my Spirit’ (D&C 11:12)
This is the way we must teach the gospel”
My question for you, “Why is it so difficult for most of us to believe the Lord will speak through us?”
I don't know why it
would be hard for us to believe, maybe because we feel like we aren't worthy,
or maybe because we don't understand or recognize how or when it is happening.
Maybe we are too afraid to try? Whatever it is though, I promise that the Lord
will speak through us if we let Him. When I first came out and first started
talking to people, I wanted to know why I didn't always know what to do or say.
God says like a million times in D&C open your mouth and it will be filled,
and other such similar things. And here I was with no idea what to say, I felt
like my mouth was open and nothing was happening. Someone in one of our meeting
though talked about prompting of the spirit though. When you think of
a prompter, like in the theater, it doesn't give you every word, it only gives
you a few, to get you started. Then you do the rest yourself. In the theater of
course it is something that you have memorized but, the Spirit works the same
way most of the time. It will get you started, but because the purpose it for
us to learn and grow, it wouldn't do us any good to just be told what to do all
the time! You'll get what you need and then you do the rest!
Anyway, talk to you
all soon!
Love,
April
Tuesday, June 30, 2015
having a lot of lightning
This week has been
kind of a slow one for us, we only had two lessons and one was basically a drop
lesson, which is never fun. We were able to have a really good lesson with Mia
though about the Restoration and we committed her to read The Book of Mormon and
pray about it, which she agreed to do. It's excellent for Mia since we starting
to think that she wasn't really that interested. We were also able to get back
in touch with Greg! Which is fantastic since we haven't heard from him in over
a month and we get to meet with Paul next week. This upcoming week is looking
like it is going to be really good, and it will be interesting to see what New
Mexico is like for the 4th of July. Mostly we worked with a lot of less active
members this week and we are thankfully seeing some good progress with them. So
that has been super good.
The only really bad thing this week is that our most progressing investigator Ruben is moving to ABQE. But I'm sure the missionaries over there are great too. We were able to attend a baptism with Ruben this week too, which was great until some old man tried to set us up with our Zone Leaders. I guess he thought we were YSA's (there was a YSA activity going on at the church at the same time). He was very very persistent that we pair off and go to the dance. It was probably the most uncomfortable thing that's happened in the past I don't know, week maybe. Ha, awkward things are happening all the time it seems. We also ran out of miles this week since it's the end of the month so we did a good amount of walking this week.
The Relief Society in our ward is also super into birthdays and so they asked us to deliver some birthday cards to some less active members. So far there haven't been any bad experiences but a few interesting ones. The best one so far has probably been the member who had a swimming pool (one of the inflatable kid ones) right in front of their door. Maneuvering around that one in a skirt was a bit of a challenge! So, if you ever want to stop someone from coming to your house, just put a swimming pool in front of your door. But I can't guarantee that the missionaries won't still try.
We've also been having a lot of lightning storms recently, which I guess means this alleged monsoon season is coming. I still don't really know what that means or what to expect, but the storms have been pretty cool. It's interesting; there is a lot of lightning and thunder but almost no rain.
I don't remember if I told you guys or not but I am reading the Book of Mormon backwards. It was actually Sister Morco who gave me the idea, I had never heard of it before then. It's cool because instead of following of focusing on the story too much, you can focus on the individual doctrine that's in the chapter. Right now I'm in 3rd Nephi so I still have a long way to go but, if you ever want to mix up your reading a bit you should try it. But, don't do it unless you've already read it forward at least once first! Something that I've noticed recently is how often God tells people to record what they have learned or what is written. Christ actually chastised the Nephites for not writing some of the prophecies that they had been given and in many instances when records have been lost or destroyed people are told to write them again, like with Jeremiah. We've been talking to a lady about the importance of writing and how it can be a benefit to yourself even more than your posterity (although they can certainly benefit from it too) and it makes me realize that I probably should be less of a horrible journal writer. I just write too much, but, I know that it's important! So we'll all commit or recommit! Keep a record of your life; you will have more gratitude, peace of mind, reflection, and sense of purpose if you do.
Well, hope everything is going well, have a good 4th of July!
Love,
April
The only really bad thing this week is that our most progressing investigator Ruben is moving to ABQE. But I'm sure the missionaries over there are great too. We were able to attend a baptism with Ruben this week too, which was great until some old man tried to set us up with our Zone Leaders. I guess he thought we were YSA's (there was a YSA activity going on at the church at the same time). He was very very persistent that we pair off and go to the dance. It was probably the most uncomfortable thing that's happened in the past I don't know, week maybe. Ha, awkward things are happening all the time it seems. We also ran out of miles this week since it's the end of the month so we did a good amount of walking this week.
The Relief Society in our ward is also super into birthdays and so they asked us to deliver some birthday cards to some less active members. So far there haven't been any bad experiences but a few interesting ones. The best one so far has probably been the member who had a swimming pool (one of the inflatable kid ones) right in front of their door. Maneuvering around that one in a skirt was a bit of a challenge! So, if you ever want to stop someone from coming to your house, just put a swimming pool in front of your door. But I can't guarantee that the missionaries won't still try.
We've also been having a lot of lightning storms recently, which I guess means this alleged monsoon season is coming. I still don't really know what that means or what to expect, but the storms have been pretty cool. It's interesting; there is a lot of lightning and thunder but almost no rain.
I don't remember if I told you guys or not but I am reading the Book of Mormon backwards. It was actually Sister Morco who gave me the idea, I had never heard of it before then. It's cool because instead of following of focusing on the story too much, you can focus on the individual doctrine that's in the chapter. Right now I'm in 3rd Nephi so I still have a long way to go but, if you ever want to mix up your reading a bit you should try it. But, don't do it unless you've already read it forward at least once first! Something that I've noticed recently is how often God tells people to record what they have learned or what is written. Christ actually chastised the Nephites for not writing some of the prophecies that they had been given and in many instances when records have been lost or destroyed people are told to write them again, like with Jeremiah. We've been talking to a lady about the importance of writing and how it can be a benefit to yourself even more than your posterity (although they can certainly benefit from it too) and it makes me realize that I probably should be less of a horrible journal writer. I just write too much, but, I know that it's important! So we'll all commit or recommit! Keep a record of your life; you will have more gratitude, peace of mind, reflection, and sense of purpose if you do.
Well, hope everything is going well, have a good 4th of July!
Love,
April
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
